Men Are Dogs: So What Else Is New?

 vernal-spring-equinox-festivals-2012-iraq-torches_50243_600x450

I have to be careful here. I’m not looking forward to see a mob of angry men, carrying torches outside my house because they feel I have become a turncoat. On the other hand, women are saying “Now here’s a guy that gets it.” The guys think I opened up Pandora’s Box by telling women how men are usually lying to them and what they really want from women.

DISCLAIMER:

I have to be careful generalizing about percentages. Very few things encompass all or none, it’s usually a number somewhere in the middle. So I will be careful saying, “Men say….”. You may feel it includes ALL men. Not so! Even by saying “Most men feel….” it’ll mean more than half feel that way. So if I slip up and either imply it is all or even most, just interpose the word ‘many’ when I say “Men feel or act a certain way,” then use the percentages that YOU can live with.

2-1999-01-01-a

John Gray wrote, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” in the mid 1990’s. It sold over 50 million copies and was ensconced on the Best Sellers List for 121 weeks. Gray researched and wrote brilliantly about the fundamental psychological differences between the genders. Men claim they offer quick solutions to problems. But women are not satisfied with the solutions, but would prefer to discuss them further. The genders also differ how they respond to stress and stressful situations.

Men often prefer to return to the comfort of their Man-Cave to refresh and review. Women, on the otherhand, want to continue to discuss “it” NOW.

Both genders have preconceived notions about finding a steady date. They also fantasize about their type.

male-swimwear-beto-malfacini

She says, “I want a tall, thin guy with a full head of hair that dances, is smart, funny and successful, and one who does not need my money.

f6b12264f8eba60de8cdca3f3320c77a

He says, “I want sexy, busty, thin, great ass who has her own money for the big things and will fulfill my sexual fantasies day and night.”

If she is lucky to find Mr. Right and he passes the “physical test”, then the personality testing begins. Is he usually kind vs. angry? Is he a talker or mute? Is he willing to do the activity I want to do? If I give in too soon in bed, will he leave me for a bigger challenge? Is he the marrying kind? Would he make a good dad?

He is usually thinking, “Does she like sports? How about playing video games and drinking beer with my buddies? Does she love sex as much as me? Does she have many activities with her friends in order to give me lots of free time with the boys?”

f482bd42c593a5bb_78375459_preview

And now for the real potential deal breaker. How is the sex? He thinks he is god’s gift to women and a great lover. She says, “Erection, ejection, then rejection. Where the hell did he go? Is that the sound of a game on TV in the den? The guy has no idea how to please a woman. He thinks “Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma’am” is how to make love. Either he doesn’t know or doesn’t care, or perhaps both.

Premature ejaculation, not being able to turn her on with foreplay (which includes starting with a good morning hug and kiss), are all things he has to be willing to work on if he can get over his embarrassment, and truly cares about improving.

Of course, there are other couples that are so into each other physically that together they explore all the various methods of improving intimacy by prolonging sexual excitement. Sting and his wife, Trudy, have extolled the joys of Tantric Sex for many years.

08314417578c3bc156ef55297921180e

Lucky me! On Thursday, May 8th at 10:00 p.m. EST, I will be interviewed by Devi Ward. Devi is a Tantric Sex Expert and a pioneer in the field of sexual healing and empowerment for women, as well as the Co-Founder of BetterLoveandSex.com – A revolutionary, new form of Erotic Education for Adults.

The link to the radio show is:

http://www.ctrnetwork.com/profile/BetterLoveandSex

I encourage you to call in with any questions that you may have for us. The call in number is: 877-230-3062

I hope that couples will listen in and learn how to improve their lovemaking. You will learn from one of only 2 people in North America qualified to teach the Secret Tibetan 5 Element Sexual Tantras.

I’m awaiting your feedback.

Thanks,

Marty

HDCoverframed

My website is: http://www.stophatingdating.com

Or you can reach me at:  www.twitter.com/martysavarick  or http://www.facebook.com/101waystostophatingdating

read a review of the book at: http://www.amazon.com/author/martysavarick

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s